The hymen is a thin membrane that partially covers the opening of the vagina. It is often associated with virginity, but it can also be present in women who have had sex. There is no single “correct” way to check the hymen, as it can vary in size, shape, and thickness from woman to woman. However, there are some general guidelines that can be followed.
To check the hymen, insert a clean finger into the vagina and gently feel around the opening. The hymen may feel like a thin, elastic band or a small flap of skin. If you are unable to feel the hymen, it may be too small to detect or it may have been torn.